I had a dream about my ex girlfriend and my mom. In this dream i feel like I’m always giving the words of encouragement to get the to be more positive about a circumstance. There is also a man there who is always around them both when they would hang out with eachother and I met the man in a baseball/tennis field. The man seemed to lack lots of confidence and when I approached them to speak to my mom and ex they would walk away and ignore me almost like my words were annoying. I felt like I was wasting energy in trying to communicate to them. In the dream one day I see them walking to a baseball/tennis practice which is my ex’s practice I believe because she plays softball but the man is has a tennis racket and she has on her softball clothes and they notice I’m there to support and I call them to come over but they keep walking and ignore me. Almost like they are repulsed by me.
This dream could symbolize a few different things related to your relationship with your ex-girlfriend and your mother. The theme of giving words of encouragement and trying to be positive suggests that you often played a supportive role in their lives, perhaps acting as a source of motivation and encouragement in difficult situations.
The man who is always around them may represent an aspect of yourself or a figure in your life who lacks confidence. This could indicate that you sometimes feel insecure or struggle with self-doubt, especially in comparison to your ex-girlfriend and your mother.
The baseball/tennis field could symbolize competition and the different activities they are involved in, with your ex playing softball and the man playing tennis. This could reflect the different areas of their lives that they are focusing on, while you may feel left out or disconnected.
The fact that they walk away and ignore you could suggest feelings of rejection or being unnoticed. It may feel like they are not receptive to your attempts at communication or supportive gestures, which can be frustrating and leave you feeling drained.
Overall, this dream could be indicating that you are experiencing feelings of being overshadowed or left out in your relationships with your ex-girlfriend and your mother. It may be worth exploring these emotions further and considering how they could be impacting your well-being and self-esteem.